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Crispy Rice Treats

Seattle cooking celebrity Cynthia Lair shared this whole grain, vegan recipe with us; so we took it to our test kitchen.  Ten year old Kid 1 and thirteen year old Kid 2 weighed in on the results:

Mom:  Was it easy to make?

Kid 1:  Yeah.

Mom:  Did you do everything yourself?

Kid 1:  Uh huh.  Except for getting it out of the pot and into the pan.  That's a two-person job.

Mom:  Anything else people should know when making this recipe?

Kid 1:  They don't have to worry about buttering the pan.  You were afraid it would stick, but the recipe doesn't say to butter the pan and you don't need to ‘cuz it doesn't stick.

Mom:  The kind we made when I was little-the pan needed butter.  Actually margarine.

Kid 2:  You used MARGARINE??? Gross.

Mom:  Everybody used margarine. People thought butter was bad for you.

Kid 2:  But butter is sooooo good!

Mom:  Everything in moderation. How does it taste?

Kid 1 & 2:  GOOD!!!!

Kid 2:  It's just like the regular kind only better.

Kid 1:  But it's chocolate-y.  Don't eat it if you don't like chocolate. 

Mom:  You could probably make it without the chocolate-we can try that next time.  These are really sweet.

Kid 2:  Not too sweet.

Mom:  Too sweet for me.  I need more milk....

Kid 2:  That's because you're a grown-up.  If you're a kid they're just right.  Can I have another?  My piece was really small...

There you have it.  The other adult in the house also thought these were on the sweet side but that didn't stop all of us from enjoying them.  And we have no idea if they keep for a week because ours were gone after four days.

 

Chocolate Brown Rice Crispy Treats

1 cup brown rice syrup

2 Tbs. creamy almond butter

2 tsp. vanilla extract

6 cups dry natural brown rice cereal*

4 oz. semi-sweet chocolate, chopped fine or 2/3 cup chocolate chips

Lightly oil a measuring cup to measure the brown rice syrup.

Put rice syrup and nut butter in a 4-quart pot and bring up to medium heat.  Stir until bubbles form.  Turn off heat and stir in vanilla extract.  Add cereal and chocolate and mix well with a spatula allowing the chocolate to melt and spread uniformly. 

Press into a 9-by-13 inch pan with slightly wet hands.  Don't be tentative; really compress the mixture until it is flat and smooth on top. 

Let mixture set to room temperature.  Slice and serve.  Lasts a week in an airtight container. 

Preparation time:  5-8 minutes

Makes 24 squares

*Be sure to get brown rice crispy cereal, not puffed rice or even partially puffed rice.  Puffed rice gets soggy; it won't produce the crispy texture. 

Posted: Tuesday, May 31, 2011 9:18 AM by Staff with 1 comment(s)

Sculpting with Earth

Spring is here and there's a lot of yard work to be done.  But the children are only able to help for a short while.  They need something else to do while you are finishing up your list of tasks.

Children, especially boys, love to dig.  Give them a small plot of ground in the yard or garden, some trowels and a shovel (child-sized one works best).  They will be busy for hours.  If the digging spot is in the sun, you can construct a simple awning over it or make sure the children wear their sun hats.

Like treasure hunters, they will delight in unearthing rocks, roots, wriggly worms and maybe even an iridescent black beetle.  On warm days, the offer of a full watering can will, no doubt, inspire the sculpting of streambeds and dams.  Unlike sand, dirt will hold its shape and allow for more permanent geographical features.

A metal cake pan will make a good pond on which to float leaf or bark boats. 

The landscape will grow, shrink and evolve with the fancy of the earth sculptors.   Parents might even have to stop their work now and again to admire the latest work of art.

Posted: Tuesday, May 17, 2011 8:31 AM by Staff with 1 comment(s)

Gardening with Children

For a child, the act of putting a tiny seed in the soil, watering it and waiting, and finally watching the green shoot poke itself up into the light is a wondrous experience.  Without a word of explanation, the child apprehends an essential aspect of the mystery of life on earth.

More lessons emerge as the plants grow and mature.  Caring for plants gives children a sense of time, weather, and seasons that are tangible and not at all abstract.  At the stage of the harvest, ripe fruits and vegetable are picked and eaten (often even before they get into the kitchen) bringing the whole experience full circle to

a tasty culmination.

Even if you do not have a large yard you can still grow a few things in pots on your deck or at the front of a flowerbed. Lettuce, strawberries, basil, and cherry tomatoes do well in pots. Many herbs are hardy perennials and look nice interspersed with flowers.  Mint and lemon balm make wonderful iced teas on warm summer days.

No matter what you grow, do not underestimate the importance of this experience in your child's education.  Growing food forms the basis for a not yet conscious appreciation of humanity's relation to nature and the archetypal work of farmers past and present.

Posted: Monday, May 16, 2011 2:16 PM by Staff with 1 comment(s)

May Baskets

This charming custom combines the excitement of "Ding-Dong Ditch" with the warm glow of anonymous philanthropy.  On the first of May, a small basket of flowers

is hung on a neighbor's doorknob.   The doorbell is rung and then the giver scurries off to hide.  When the door is opened, the neighbor is greeted only by a basket of flowers and hopefully some sunshine.

May baskets are a simple project for children, requiring only scissors, paper, staples or glue, and a few flowers.  Even dandelions (which grow abundantly in our

yard) will give a very satisfying effect.

Start by making the basket.  A simple basket can be made from a single sheet of paper.  Old calendars are ideal for this project because their glossy, colorful

pages make sturdy, beautiful baskets.  

Cut a long, narrow strip from one side of the paper.  This will be the handle of your basket.  Roll the remaining paper into a cone.  Secure with staples (or glue or tape), attach your handle and you are done!

Perfect cone shapes can be achieved by starting with a perfect quarter circle of paper but we try not to bother since we are constantly fighting perfectionism in our household. 

Add flowers to your basket (wrap the stems in damp newspaper and plastic if you think your neighbors might not get their gift right away), then run out to make your deliveries.  

Even if the flowers have wilted by the time your neighbors find them, a May basket will always delight.   It's a reminder that summer is coming and that thoughtful neighbors are thinking of them.    

Posted: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 12:34 PM by Staff with 1 comment(s)

Mother's Day - My Favorite

For the past few years around Mother's Day, our school has offered a mother-daughter tea party as a school fundraiser.  One family provides their spectacular B&B as a venue; a few families scrounge up enough tea pots and china to serve 45, while others make tea sandwiches, tiny cupcakes, cookies, and quiches.

The first year, I attended the party with my daughters and it was delightful. What could be better than fancy finger food in a fancy setting?  Surprisingly, there was something better-working the event.  The next year, we baked scones, cut crusts off bread, garnished sandwiches, set tables, served tea, moved chairs, and cleaned up. 

It was a lot of work, but also a lot of fun.  And with three other mother-daughter teams working alongside, I got to see my eight and eleven year olds rise to the occasion.  I could not have been more proud.  What better Mother's Day present is there than seeing your children at their best?

Because more than flowers and cards - even more than breakfast in bed and spa certificates - what this mother really wants is affirmation that I'm doing a good job.  I want a sign that my children will grow up to be the kind of people I hope they will be.

That vision of the future will vary from family to family and changes as your children grow.   But take some time to imagine it, and make sure your children know what's important to you.  Then give them the opportunity to shine.

Working the tea party has become a tradition for our family.  Whenever my children seemed spoiled and entitled and lazy and selfish, I can think back on the last tea party when they were courteous, competent, thoughtful and hard-working. 

So although I treasure the cards and appreciate the flowers - and yes those spa certificates are lovely - what I really want for Mother's Day is the chance to work the tea party with my girls again. 

 

Posted: Saturday, May 07, 2011 7:17 AM by Staff with 2 comment(s)

Fairy Houses

Grey pussey willows

For fairy pillows

So soft for a fairy's head

Cherry petals sweet

For a cool clean sheet

Green moss for a fairy's head

There are fairies living in the hidden recesses of the garden.  All children seem to know that.   Just because we have gotten too big and noisy to see them doesn't mean they are gone.  May is the perfect month to get acquainted with fairies. What better way than to build them a little house from the treasures of the season!  The children will find just the right tree, with deliciously secret recesses at the roots, to start building.  A pretty tray for gathering moss and magnolia petals, snail shells and bits of bark, adds a dainty touch.  Let dandelions and daisy chains, buttercups and broom festoon the rooms, with perhaps a glittering polished-glass jewel hidden deep inside as a gift for the king and queen.  Magic is afoot in spring and many happy hours will be spent in the glory of nature with the good company of the little people.

Posted: Thursday, May 05, 2011 11:22 AM by Staff with 1 comment(s)

Making Merry in May

It is the month of May

When merry children play

So every lad and lass

Come dance upon the grass

So sang the the children as  blossoms were wound round the tall pole that would soon be set up in the middle of the village green for the day of dancing and festivities on the first of May.  In agrarian communities the end of winter was celebrated with joy and relief.  New lambs, kids and calves showed promise of bounty in the future.  As the fickle wind and weather of March and April gave way to the gentle breezes and blossoms of May and the first new foods began to vary the winter table, people crawled out of hibernation, put on their finery and met to make merry and raise their voices in song.

The celebration of first day of May, called Mayfair or Beltane, is a tradition with deep roots in the soil of pre-Christian Europe.  Unlike the more solemn holidays of early spring, May Day was a time for rejoicing and looking forward to the happy summer days to come.  The festival has its origin in pagan times as a rite to insure an abundant harvest in autumn at Samhain, half a year away.  This mood of magic regeneration is still present in more recent traditions.  Girls would wake before dawn to wash their faces in the first dew of the happy day insuring that they would be forever beautiful and young.  Boys and girls alike would don their best and brightest and come to town hoping to catch the eye of the one they fancied, and many a match was made on the first of May.   A young May King and Queen were often chosen to preside over the festivities.

As the day proceeded, ivy was knotted into crowns and dancers would bow and bend to their partners like swaying branches.   The May Tree or May Pole, a dead winter branch sprung to new life with swathes of greenery and flowers, would be hoisted into the air amid shouts of triumph.  Weaving the ribbons together the dancers reweave the bonds of community and renew their ties, one to the other.  If King Winter was lurking anywhere near the celebrants would be ready, Morris dance sticks in hand, to give him a good drubbing and chase him out of town!

Do you have a plan to celebrate this joyous time of renewal?  You could join a Maypole dance or just have a picnic with your family to welcome back the singing birds, the sweet breezes and the Merry Month of May!

Posted: Sunday, May 01, 2011 6:11 AM by Staff with 1 comment(s)